Daughter dating a gang member
Today, it is believed that the Italian-American Mafia has loosened this requirement so that males of half-Italian descent through their father's line can also be inducted.Determining who might be a member of a gang needs to be done with caution and without assumptions. Be curious about the gang and what it means to the person. A lot is made of "colors" flying blue or red clothing, and things like bandannas establishing gang affiliation.
If he admits he is part of a gang, find out what the gang means to him and what it represents to his community. But it might also mean the person had clean blue clothes that day. Don't follow people to see if they hook up with a gang and then go out shooting guns and threatening people."When one of few things she said to me was: 'Mama, I want them to be burnt alive'," said her mother, who sat last week hunched in a charpoy, a traditional string cot that her relatives had set up in the yard of her home.In the American Mafia, a made man is a fully initiated member of the Mafia.If someone is dating your kid, and you want to know, ask.
But don't profile or assume one race wearing one color means anything. Earning or making one's "bones" or "button" or becoming a "button man" for the Mafia is usually synonymous with becoming a "made man".